She Swipe Right! and you matched! Then?

Twist, turns, plots and drama sounds good for a movie but when it comes into real life then it can be beautiful or unpredictable.

At present, he needs a person standing beside you is created and posturized the loneliness of individual from teen to adults all are suffering from the same.

8 hours of school and then some private class at that young age Ryan, 9 hours of college at the age of 19 Josef and working girl Riya 25 they all are looking not for some individual but to move out from there loneliness.

They all are socially active and continuous checking out profiles at Facebook, Instagram, Tinder and many match making website. The big question remains the same are they looking for relationship or some joyful time after the busy life from school, college and office.

Few days later, they all found there matches and things started getting more complicated in the life. All three of them unable to understand the slight difference between protectiveness and possessiveness and impacts can be clearly visible in the grades respectively.

Things come into picture were ego, curbing freedom, decision making and trust. The solution can be easy give some time to things and analyse after that, every individual has his or her nature and does not like to change it but with time and importance come into picture things can be made better.

Try to understand the things stop lashing out each other!

Of Couse they swiped right for each other; not for their future?

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Freedom is what every one of us looking for however every doing either it is right or wrong linked by freedom.

The strange change that can be clearly observed while checking out the social media that freedom can be express in pictures too and that too when couples kiss and post it and of course the majority of them are below 17. Either 90’s kid too long to grow them self or next generation is super-fast.

Back to my college day, I do still remember the conversation had with my sports office about love, affection. The reason behind this conversation was one of our team players told management that he wants his girlfriend to be part of every match as she is his lucky charm.

As every sports teacher in this world is strict so as mine, he is fumed by lucky charm thing and told that this thing won’t work in sports as I countered him, sir, they both love each other and in past also we have seen this player performance at the top whenever she is in stands.

After minutes of silence.

Look, son, there are 3 stages of love with this statement sir begin to explain the stages

  1. Before marriage – This can be called immaturity or attraction or curiosity of getting physical with someone and 90% of people fall into this trap considering that it’s their true love.
  2. After marriage – The moment everything is well you are trying to understand each other and actually you don’t have any option other than fall in love for the person
  3. After Kids – The sense of maturity, understanding, and emotions still present between you and your wife after having kids believe me then only you can say that is true love.

What is said may be correct or not but once the things are done then you cannot rectify.

Couple goals that terminology that does not have significance when my parents got married that only thing value that time is trust, understanding and emotional support that is more important than the couple goals post which we keep seeing nowadays.

Here I am not talking about ethics or culture but just for saying a couple below 17 years posting their kissing picture on social media keeping hashtags and keeping fighting over the call then that sort of goals are below standards.

Then again words of sir come in mind may be the 90% are doing the same thing but hold for a second and again think once things are posted on social media then you can’t rectify it.

Thing is getting change but for me couple goal will be hold on…………………………………..

 

I am not going to share that on social media 😉

Not a Happy ending!!! – part 5

Just when the caterpillar thought that world was over, it becomes butterfly….

7th of January Monday, Jeff text “one of my friends is celebrating his birthday and want you to come, are you willing to come? she said yes. We went to a restaurant and a text comes to her phone “Gm  :*” Jeff asked what is this honey? he is Patrick and teasing me. let me talk to him Jeff said and text that guy “stay in your limit dude” and matter got resolved for that time.

I received an official email – Hi Jeff, Due to business needs and violation of terms of employment, we are terminating your services with immediate effect. It strikes like a missile to me and tears are almost into my eyes then she holds my hand and said it’ okay everything going to be fine soon, I am with you. Jeff asked her “I think you should rethink your decision I am not the same person financially now who can fulfill your dreams. She scolded and said shut up and stop thinking like this.

In order to find a new job and also giving her time started committing mistakes, we went for a movie on 14th of January she paid for the ticket as it was Friday they are too expensive and during the weekend. In the interval, she said I had a conversation with Patrik today and I was upset with this statement started ignoring her for rest of the movie. Then we had an argument in public and then in order to make things good again, we went for lunch with her friend. But her mood was so badly spoiled that I can clearly see that, when I drop her back to her place, saw a tear in her eyes.

Things moved swiftly for a couple of days then on 16th January morning she called me I am back from my classes and just with my friend in 63b street in order to meet her I told her may I come to meet you? she said come, my friend, she is eating ice cream. Okay, I would also eat then 🙂 Jeff replied and went to meet her because she is important than the ice cream.

She was in light blue crop top and denim and looking cute. I talked to her and took ice cream and as it was winter I told her ” you should wear something it’s cold look at your friend even she is wearing and she replied it’s not that cold”. I said is Patrick talked to you she said he is changed and not doing bad things like past. I replied I don’t think he is going to change and give ice cream to her and I am set to leave the place.

Annie said to eat the ice cream or else I will through it and Jeff replied I don’t want to eat.  She then said I don’t like such relationship neither I want such relationship now. Jeff tried hard to make everything good at that time but things started getting worst.

I was expecting that her friend will make her understand the things or make everything good but expectation always hurt.  I called her almost 200 times that day but she does not pick the call.

Jeff went to church and prayed to God at least make her pick the call and the rest coming is all upon you Lord. I called her from the church and this time she picked and then the only thing she said which is still in my head ” it’s over”

It was night time and taste of coffee is still in my mouth in summer. It;s almost 2 more than two months now. I keep repeating the incident at least once in a day and thought what went wrong?

The problem is not that I lost my girlfriend but I lost a friend whom I make the promise I will not leave her.

Happy endings might prevail but not in this story 🙂

Memories that will remain forever – part 4

When there is a relationship there is misunderstanding and when you are mature enough to handle that then only enter into a relationship this thought always keep my mind as I promised her not to leave in any situation.

It was my birthday and I know she is going to plan something joyful but she was not well that day still being unhealthy she comes and spends whole day with me. She is in pain because of medicines and just to make my day she is smiling and enjoying though I never shared the thoughts with her because she might become emotional because of this. I never got gifts from friends or girlfriend this was the first time in a long span of my life got a gift from a girl and she was damn excited due to that but thoughts keep running in my mind. Did I deserve her because I can’t give her gifts at this time? I tried to refuse the gift but the only thing comes from her mouth dump them or takes them, I am not going to take that back.

We are in a relationship for more than a month now but I always try to impress her and make her feel happy. On new year eve, we planned to go to an old church which is situated which is 60 miles away from our place. We went there and in the whole drive she hugged me and we shared some awesome moments, we prayed together and light up candles for our happiness. We come back and it was new year night at midnight I called her on her phone and in the mean time we both are drunk separately with our friends. She was unable to pick the phone at that time that makes me upset and a bit angry but it because of noise she was not able to hear the phone.

She called back, I replied badly “I am calling you and you were busy with your friends” Jeff I am with my friends but it’s because of noise I am unable to hear the phone call and for your information, I called you to wish new year before my parents Annie replied. Jeff was speechless and tell her Annie I love you .. will you marry me?  She asked “are you serious,” Jeff said yes I am and she said YES I will…

Hence our new year start but who know that happiness going to stay just for a week.

Worth Waiting – part 3

We keep meeting on a regular day from that long drive and try to give time to each other as she like my hobby and I like her without any hobby. From movies to cafe’ and bike without police interfering from now to waiting for her always at her place that was part of jeff life now.

Anni always look sizzling hot and cute although in humor she is almost a kid with the small thing makes her upset to anger for the bad things. I always try to make her happy but why I getting possessive for her alway makes me life bad. When she text I am with Robert he just comes to meet or in a call with him I was okay but that okay has many things inside it.  But that okay has grief, sadness, pain and love for her.

23 November, things usually take the time to move good but in my case, it always makes quick and awesome turns in my life. I was checking her pic on her text messenger and text her “Stop making this sort of DP, okay otherwise I purpose you” I am waiting for your proposal 🙂 she replied.

Can I give you a call right now? jeff asked “yes she said”. As she said hello I asked her are you drunk? and she replied yes. Then we have a conversation for about 30 minutes and in that time I come to know life always play badly with every individual and she has already suffered a lot in her life till now because of love and due to which she afraid to come into love again. I tried to calm her down and told “I won’t leave you for sure if either you become my girlfriend or not. She asked are you sure about that you won’t leave me? Jeff replied Yes Baby 😉

 

Blessing in disguise the policemen – part 2

16, November Bell rings it was a text message “I am back to 63B street” and jeff replied that’s great. It was a peak time in jeff life as going to complete his office project and getting promoted for his good work with huge perks and he was a big busy at that time.

18, November Bell again ring it was a text message again from Annie “you told me to meet when I will be there but you forget” jeff replied “No not like that let’s meet today? you can come one of my friends is also coming we can meet Annie replied.

Jeff thought for a while might be she is in a relationship and her boyfriend is coming to meet her that why calling me at the same time. Jeff replied, ” I have some work today, sorry we will meet some other day” that was the full lie because he wants to meet her alone.

19, November jeff text Annie can we go for a drive today? Annie replied “At 7:30 at 62B street ;).

It was long time jeff did not date anyone nor the long drives so excitement was at the peak as he gets prepared with the attire to shoes and went on time to pick her. Her first look was amazing a black top and blue denim shorts. However, it was not so cold at that time but when a hot girl sits on the back side on your bike there was shiver in the body and sweating in palms that are actually going with jeff.

Long drive start with talks and she checked one of the guys and said look at him he was good, at least stop looking at other when you are with me jeff replied. you are mine why should I bother about you and jeff asked what? nothing just drive she replied and chuckles.

On the construction site jeff stopped the bike and said it being long I have seen a beautiful girl like you can we stop and talk so I can have more time to look at your beauty.

Remembering the old time and talks and exchanging the hobbies we have not noticed the time and it was too late and we heard the police siren and they come and stopped in front of us. Then the interrogation starts and bribe always works even in our country we got out of that by giving $400.

Jeff feels so embarrassed because out of $400 70% is Annie gave and she was so frightened too.  I started the bike and she sits closer than the previous time and hugged me tightly and said let go please I am so frightened. Jeff holds her hand and said I LOVE YOU Annie that was not he has planned but it suddenly comes out from his mouth. I know she replied.

We keep meeting and always laugh at the policemen incident. Jeff asked her about the relationship she said I can’t because of past bad experience. Not an issue we will be good friend Jeff replied.

Hug from her that day still fresh in jeff memory and always think is that blessing in disguise for him…

 

 

 

 

Outset!!! she arrived – part 1

Sunny day and humid condition Jeff is seating in the lawn of his rented house and with the sip of coffee enjoying the evening. Seating alone always makes thoughts come to his mind and he is again thinking about the same incident that winter morning in a short span of time changes all the things in his life.

November 9 a request pour into the facebook and he read the name, Annie and without hesitation, he accepts the request because she was her schoolmate and started talking to her  sharing all the memories and revising the school time and then he come to know the Annie is living in the same area 62B street and amazing fact living in the same area from last 2 years both have not meet.

Jeff with all curiosity checks Annie’s facebook timeline and saw the sudden transformation of a school girl to a beauty and impact of modernization and that was really impressive as jeff trying to talk in a normal manner like an old schoolmate and got her contact number within 3 hours then he went for work but before that he ask her when you are coming back? we will meet ? she said I will be there after 15 days and yes of course 🙂

Working on the project but her image keeps coming inside his mind and reflecting the thoughts that god is hinting something by bringing an almost stranger to come in your life after almost 12 years or more.  He moved that thought away and let her be friend don’t keep your head work for doing such thing which is impossible. Look at yourself, you don’t deserve her.