She Swipe Right! and you matched! Then?

Twist, turns, plots and drama sounds good for a movie but when it comes into real life then it can be beautiful or unpredictable.

At present, he needs a person standing beside you is created and posturized the loneliness of individual from teen to adults all are suffering from the same.

8 hours of school and then some private class at that young age Ryan, 9 hours of college at the age of 19 Josef and working girl Riya 25 they all are looking not for some individual but to move out from there loneliness.

They all are socially active and continuous checking out profiles at Facebook, Instagram, Tinder and many match making website. The big question remains the same are they looking for relationship or some joyful time after the busy life from school, college and office.

Few days later, they all found there matches and things started getting more complicated in the life. All three of them unable to understand the slight difference between protectiveness and possessiveness and impacts can be clearly visible in the grades respectively.

Things come into picture were ego, curbing freedom, decision making and trust. The solution can be easy give some time to things and analyse after that, every individual has his or her nature and does not like to change it but with time and importance come into picture things can be made better.

Try to understand the things stop lashing out each other!

Of Couse they swiped right for each other; not for their future?

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Freedom is what every one of us looking for however every doing either it is right or wrong linked by freedom.

The strange change that can be clearly observed while checking out the social media that freedom can be express in pictures too and that too when couples kiss and post it and of course the majority of them are below 17. Either 90’s kid too long to grow them self or next generation is super-fast.

Back to my college day, I do still remember the conversation had with my sports office about love, affection. The reason behind this conversation was one of our team players told management that he wants his girlfriend to be part of every match as she is his lucky charm.

As every sports teacher in this world is strict so as mine, he is fumed by lucky charm thing and told that this thing won’t work in sports as I countered him, sir, they both love each other and in past also we have seen this player performance at the top whenever she is in stands.

After minutes of silence.

Look, son, there are 3 stages of love with this statement sir begin to explain the stages

  1. Before marriage – This can be called immaturity or attraction or curiosity of getting physical with someone and 90% of people fall into this trap considering that it’s their true love.
  2. After marriage – The moment everything is well you are trying to understand each other and actually you don’t have any option other than fall in love for the person
  3. After Kids – The sense of maturity, understanding, and emotions still present between you and your wife after having kids believe me then only you can say that is true love.

What is said may be correct or not but once the things are done then you cannot rectify.

Couple goals that terminology that does not have significance when my parents got married that only thing value that time is trust, understanding and emotional support that is more important than the couple goals post which we keep seeing nowadays.

Here I am not talking about ethics or culture but just for saying a couple below 17 years posting their kissing picture on social media keeping hashtags and keeping fighting over the call then that sort of goals are below standards.

Then again words of sir come in mind may be the 90% are doing the same thing but hold for a second and again think once things are posted on social media then you can’t rectify it.

Thing is getting change but for me couple goal will be hold on…………………………………..

 

I am not going to share that on social media 😉

Outset!!! she arrived – part 1

Sunny day and humid condition Jeff is seating in the lawn of his rented house and with the sip of coffee enjoying the evening. Seating alone always makes thoughts come to his mind and he is again thinking about the same incident that winter morning in a short span of time changes all the things in his life.

November 9 a request pour into the facebook and he read the name, Annie and without hesitation, he accepts the request because she was her schoolmate and started talking to her  sharing all the memories and revising the school time and then he come to know the Annie is living in the same area 62B street and amazing fact living in the same area from last 2 years both have not meet.

Jeff with all curiosity checks Annie’s facebook timeline and saw the sudden transformation of a school girl to a beauty and impact of modernization and that was really impressive as jeff trying to talk in a normal manner like an old schoolmate and got her contact number within 3 hours then he went for work but before that he ask her when you are coming back? we will meet ? she said I will be there after 15 days and yes of course 🙂

Working on the project but her image keeps coming inside his mind and reflecting the thoughts that god is hinting something by bringing an almost stranger to come in your life after almost 12 years or more.  He moved that thought away and let her be friend don’t keep your head work for doing such thing which is impossible. Look at yourself, you don’t deserve her.